tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2337250397870801702024-02-20T15:19:30.820-08:00SEX EDUCATIONOM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.comBlogger164125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-87223733542326845042011-02-18T21:43:00.001-08:002011-02-18T21:52:22.591-08:00SEX IS GOOD FOR HEALTH !<div style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial;">Sex is an important facet of our life and we must each of us have a healthy sex life to keep our batteries fully charged ! In fact sex is one of the most wonderful things created by God , by which we attain nirvana and pleasure of a new dimension !<br /><br />For sexual release to come through , and especially for self gratification it is perfectly normal to masturbate , and in fact a vast majority does use this route to stay healthy !<br /><br />Remember , good sex is actually good for your health and is essential as is good food , good fresh air and a good night's sleep !<br /><br />Sex is good for you and your health , so keep the right perspective , but at the same time protect yourself from diseases and at best avoid pre martial sex since that is not advisable in the interest of your mental and physical health !<br /></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-32497229703688279092010-10-02T08:18:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:42:07.621-07:00ARE YOU REALLY PROTECTED FROM SEX DISEASES ?<p style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;">It's obvious that if you limit your partners to exactly zero, you are not going to be at risk for nearly all STIs. Just like if I don't cross the street, I'm not likely to be hit by a car. Some nonsexual behaviors can present risks of some (like using intravenous drugs), but over all, sexually transmitted infections are called that because they are most often transmitted through genital sex. So if you don't have any kind of sex (we're mostly talking about oral, anal, vaginal and penile sex), you're probably not going to get or transmit an STI.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;">But you already knew that. What you might not know is that delaying sexual activity -- or at least some of it -- is also known to help prevent infections. Just from a physiological standpoint alone, very young women, in particular, are more susceptible to STIs just because of the state of their not-yet-finished reproductive systems. Too, younger people often have a tougher time using and negotiating safer sex practices as well as acquiring regular sexual healthcare. So, sometimes even just putting off sex one more year can make a big difference when it comes to your health. </span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;">You probably also already know this, but if you and a partner have been each other's <b>only</b> partner for ANY kind of sex, and neither you nor your partner have ever been sexually assaulted, your risks of nearly all STIs are also very low. Oral herpes<a class="glossary-term" href="http://www.scarleteen.com/glossary/term/3413"><dfn title="A viral disease caused by both or either herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) and/or type 2 (HSV-2). Both can be transmitted via sex or other intimate contact, including between outbreaks. " cold="" sores="" a="" symptom="" of="" herpes="" cannot="" be="" but="" treatments="" are="" available="" to="" reduce=""></dfn></a> is still a big possibility since so many people have it and usually acquire it nonsexually in childhood, and for someone who, for instance, was born with HIV,<a class="glossary-term" href="http://www.scarleteen.com/glossary/term/3414"><dfn title="Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) is a virus that eventually destroys the immune system and weakens the body's ability to fight disease and infection. It usually progresses to AIDS. It is a serious sexually transmitted infection that requires medical treatment, although it cannot be cured."></dfn></a> that STI would still be an issue. We still strongly encourage even folks in that situation to start with other safer sex practices -- barriers and testing -- for the first six months, however. Not only do we have to face the reality that not everyone is truthful about their sexual history -- and very frequently, people are not -- but it's just a smart practice to get the hang of. You may need aspects of that experience later with that partner to negotiate and work birth control<a class="glossary-term" href="http://www.scarleteen.com/glossary/term/3438"><dfn title="Any number of methods people use to intentionally prevent unwanted pregnancy, including the condom, the cervical barrier, the implant, the patch, the pill, the rhythm method, the ring, the shot, the IUD, spermicide and withdrawal."></dfn></a>, for instance, or may need to know how to do safer sex right if one or both of you don't stay exclusive or <a class="glossary-term" href="http://www.scarleteen.com/glossary/term/3512"><dfn title="Something that is not divided or shared with others; which excludes others based on a given criteria."></dfn></a> together.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Even if you already are or have been sexually active, or you or your partner have had more than each other as a partner, it's still sound in terms of your health to be selective about sexual partners and make an effort to limit your number of partners. Why that can often help to prevent infections is just simple common sense. If I cross the street one time a day, I have less of a chance to get hit by a car than I do if I cross it twenty times a day. If I have heterosexual <a class="glossary-term" href="http://www.scarleteen.com/glossary/term/3381"><dfn title="Someone who is only or mostly emotionally and sexually attracted to people of a different sex or gender than they are themselves."></dfn></a> intercourse several times a month, I'm more likely to become pregnant than I would be if i had it but once.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family:arial;">None of this is to say there is one right or wrong thing for everyone when it comes to when we become sexually active or how many sexual partners we have, or that having a given number of sexual partners -- or none at all -- makes anyone a better or worse person. What's right for us emotionally, interpersonally, in terms of our life goals, experiences and relationships is something we have to figure out for ourselves, and something that varies a lot among people. But from a standpoint of personal and public health, delaying sexual activity (with partners: you can masturbate as much as you want) and limiting partners makes a difference and is a sound way of protecting yourself and othe</span></span>rs.</p>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-81183447481221002092010-10-02T08:08:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:09:36.858-07:00GETTING MARRIED WITH HIV STATUS !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>CAN A HIV POSITIVE MAN GET MARRIED? </b></span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> A HIV positive man can get married provided he informs his HIV positive status to his future wife, and she is still willing to marry him knowing all the facts. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> A HIV positive man can marry a HIV positive woman, but both need to be counselled before marriage.</span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-40598469971538585942010-10-02T08:07:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:08:42.244-07:00PREGNANT MOTHERS WITH HIV AIDS !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>CAN A HIV POSITIVE WOMAN HAVE CHILDREN?</b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> Yes, a HIV positive woman can have children. The pregnant HIV positive woman has a 60% chance of delivering a HIV negative child even with no medical intervention. The chance of her delivering a HIV positive child is 40%. This can now be reduced to a 2% chance of delivering a HIV positive child with medical intervention during the last three months of pregnancy, during labor and delivery and by making the right infant feeding choices for the baby. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Drugs are available to prevent the child from getting HIV infection from the HIV infected mother and are given to the HIV positive pregnant mother after blood and urine tests during the last three months of pregnancy. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • The parents are also counseled regarding the type of delivery and its cost, and allowed to make a choice. A planned cesarean operation for the mother about two weeks before the due date is ideal to extract the baby without the baby coming into contact with vaginal secretions and fluids during the course of normal vaginal delivery. This is preferred when afforded, especially when the mother has had no treatment with drugs during pregnancy. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • The mother is also counseled regarding infant feeding choices. If she can afford to give clean, artificial milk feeds without using a feeding bottle, this is the best option. However, in the absence of clean water and lack of money for formula feeds or animal milk, the mother may give only breast feeds for three months and then wean the baby abruptly to weaning foods and animal milk. </span><b style="font-family: arial;">The worst option is to give both breast feeds and artificial feeds alternatively at the same time, </b><span style="font-family: arial;">as mixed feeds irritate and inflame the baby's intestines making it more easy for the HIV present in the mother's milk to infect the baby. </span></span><br /></div> <span class="hd1"><br /></span>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-45895729299094248692010-10-02T08:06:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:07:08.096-07:00TREATING HIV AIDS !<span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>IS THERE TREATMENT FOR HIV/AIDS?</b></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> There is treatment for HIV/AIDS by which the viral level in the body is decreased, which in turn allows the immune system to recover. This treatment presently consists of combinations of allopathic drugs taken orally and is to be taken life long under the medical doctor's supervision. Even a single dose should not be skipped. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> These drugs prolong the life of a HIV infected person, however, they do not cure HIV/AIDS. </span><br /></span> <span class="hd1"><br /></span>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-13277835925310691142010-10-02T08:05:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:06:09.724-07:00NO THESE DON'T OFFER PROTECTION !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>CAN TAKING TABLETS SUCH AS MALA-D , OR USING COPPER-T PROTECT AGAINST GETTING HIV/AIDS?</b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b> </b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> Mala-D is a contraceptive tablet, and the Copper-T an intrauterine device, which is used by women to prevent pregnancy, however they do not provide any protection against HIV/AIDS as there is no barrier to body fluids as in the case of the condom. Condoms provide a barrier for the exchange of body fluids, such as, semen, vaginal fluid/discharge and give almost 100% protection against HIV/AIDS, most STDs, and pregnancy if used correctly and consistently, from the time of penetration till the end of the sexual act. </span></span><br /></div> <span class="hd1"><br /></span>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-44885893635162221592010-10-02T08:04:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:05:08.900-07:00LIVING WITH HIV INFECTION !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>HOW LONG CAN A PERSON LIVE WITH HIV/AIDS?</b></span><br /> <br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> A person with HIV infection can live a normal and healthy life for a long time, say 8-10 years. AIDS is the last stage of HIV infection where a person starts showing symptoms of HIV infection (i.e., has symptoms and signs of superadded or opportunistic infections). Now treatment is available for keeping HIV/AIDS under control in allopathy. When these medicines are taken under the supervision of a doctor, a HIV infected person can live a healthy, productive life for a longer time. </span><br /> </div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-54892132855755144242010-10-02T08:03:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:04:10.966-07:00ARE THERE CURES FOR THIS DISEASE !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>DOES AYURVEDA, SIDDHA OR HOMEOPATHY MEDICINES CURE AIDS?</b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><span style="font-family: arial;">There is a lot of research going on in all branches of medicine, i.e., ayurveda, siddha, and homeopathy, and medicines are available to boost the immunity. However nothing but allopathic medicine has been proven scientifically to help a person in the AIDS phase of the illness to keep the HIV infection under control. This allopathic treatment has to be taken under the close supervision of an allopathic doctor. </span></span><br /></div> <span class="hd1"><br /></span>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-73208718359730678352010-10-02T08:02:00.000-07:002010-10-02T08:03:03.648-07:00HIV & ACQUIRED IMMUNO DEFICIENCY SYNDROME<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HIV AND AIDS? </b></span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> There are two phases in HIV infection after the virus infects a person. In the first phase, the person infected with HIV is asymptomatic, healthy and active, for 8 to 10 years. Only a blood test will tell if one is HIV positive and at least two to three ELISA tests have to be positive. Such a person is infected and is infective to others. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> In the second phase, i.e., AIDS phase, the person's immune system becomes weak and as a result they develop other infections or show the symptoms of AIDS white curd-like mouth ulcers, loss of weight, fever on and off, loose motions for more than a month, different kinds of pneumonia, tuberculosis affecting many parts of the body or brain fever. The AIDS phase is the last stage of HIV. Even if a person is in the AIDS phase, by taking antiretroviral therapy for HIV/AIDS, one can live a healthy productive life for a long time, but the medicines have to be taken regularly under the supervision of a qualified medical doctor.</span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-20980165002267233112010-10-02T08:01:00.001-07:002010-10-02T08:01:58.181-07:00NO CURE AS OF NOW FOR THIS KILLER !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>IS THERE A CURE FOR HIV/AIDS? </b></span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> At present there is no cure for HIV/AIDS, but there are medicines in allopathy to keep the disease under control.</span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-63016298466807956672010-10-02T08:00:00.001-07:002010-10-02T08:00:53.097-07:00ARE MOSQUITOES CARRIERS OF HIV ?<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>DOES A MOSQUITO BITE SPREAD HIV/AIDS? </b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><span style="font-family: arial;">HIV/AIDS doesn't spread by mosquito bites. Epidemiologically, the incidence of HIV infection is the highest among the sexually active age group of 15 years to 49 years. However, mosquitoes bite persons of all age groups, and if they were a means of spreading HIV, the incidence of infection would be uniformly high among all age groups. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> HIV does not survive or replicate inside the intestine of the mosquito, which is another reason to believe that mosquitoes cannot spread the HIV infection. Mosquitoes suck the blood of the individual they bite, but they do not suck blood from one and inject into another person.</span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-2427606977172087012010-10-02T07:59:00.001-07:002010-10-02T07:59:49.854-07:00WHERE TO GO FOR THE TEST !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>WHERE CAN ONE DO HIV TESTING? </b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> HIV testing can be done at any good laboratory in nursing homes, private hospitals, government hospitals, and district hospitals. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> It is important that before one does a HIV test, they go through counseling before the test as it prepares one for the HIV result and further management. Counseling should also be done after the result of the HIV test is known for interpretation of the test result and planning further action.</span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-50877325082491247032010-10-02T07:57:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:59:03.573-07:00GETTING TESTED FOR THE VIRUS !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>WHO NEEDS TO DO A HIV TEST AND WHEN? </b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><span style="font-family: arial;">The following need a HIV test: </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Any person who has had unprotected penetrative anal, vaginal or oral sex, premaritally or extramaritally, or </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Multiple sexual partners, or </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Blood transfusion where testing is doubtful or not known, or </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Intravenous drugs and has shared needles, or </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Has a partner with multiple sexual relationships or intravenous drug abuse, or • A partner known to be HIV positive, or </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Recurrent episodes of illness or fever of unknown cause, and </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Any pregnant woman, who can take measures to prevent her child from getting HIV infection if she knows her HIV status. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> The HIV test is done at three months, six months and one year after any of the above risks for HIV infection. In the event that a person has had multiple risks for HIV, it is advisable to undergo HIV counseling with a HIV test immediately, followed by abstinence or correct and consistent use of condoms from the time of penetration till the end of the sexual act. Getting intoxicated with alcohol or drugs should be strictly avoided, as one would not know if a condom has been used properly in such a state. This person will also need tests three months, six months and one year later. </span></span><br /></div> <span class="hd2"><br /> </span>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-69203383843518513372010-10-02T07:56:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:57:09.178-07:00BE SURE , YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>WHAT ARE SAFE SEX PRACTICES?</b></span><br /><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><br /><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><span style="font-family: arial;">Any sexual activity between two uninfected people is safe. </span><br /> <br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> Any sexual activity, which doesn't involve the entry of HIV infected blood, semen, or vaginal fluids into the body is safe.</span><br /> <br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> Any sexual activity, which completely eliminates the risk of infection, is safe sex, for example, correct and consistent use of condoms, which eliminates the exchange of possible HIV infected semen, seminal fluid or pre-ejaculatory fluid, or vaginal fluid gives protection against HIV/AIDS and most other STDs.</span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-68514448705335979782010-10-02T07:54:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:55:59.412-07:00HOMOSEXUALS , BEWARE OF AIDS !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>WHY ARE HOMOSEXUALS AT HIGHER RISK OF HIV/AIDS?</b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><span style="font-family: arial;">Homosexual activity may involve anal penetration of the passive partner by the penis of the other partner. The rectum has a less robust lining than the vagina and is more easily damaged. This provides easy access for HIV from the infected semen to a passive partner or the HIV infected blood from the torn rectal lining of a passive partner can enter the penis through any ulcers or abrasions on the penis of the other partner. </span></span> </div><p style="font-family: arial; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Unprotected anal penetrative activity is a high risk for the spread of HIV because: </span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: arial; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"> i. Condoms tear more easily during anal intercourse unless they are well lubricated. When one uses a well-lubricated condom correctly and consistently, from the time of penetration until the end of the act, it provides protection against HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. </span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> ii. Male homosexuals tend to have more number of sexual partners and therefore naturally are at greater risk of picking up the HIV infection.</span></span></div><p> </p>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-67712372324868821402010-10-02T07:53:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:54:45.120-07:00ORAL SEX & HIV AIDS !<span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>CAN ORAL SEX CAUSE HIV/AIDS?</b></span><span style="font-family: arial;" class="style1"><b><br /> <br /> </b></span><span style="font-family: arial;">Oral sex is less risky than penetrative sex. There are two kinds of oral sex: </span><br /> <br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> i. Penis to mouth</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> ii. Vagina to mouth </span> <p style="font-family: arial;">Penis to mouth:<br /> In this kind of oral sex, if a man is HIV infected then his seminal fluid/semen contains HIV virus. This HIV infected semen comes in contact with the partner's mouth and if she has bleeding gums or swallows it, then there is a chance of her getting infected with HIV. <br /> <br /> When a woman is HIV infected, and if she has bleeding gums, this bloodstained saliva can infect the man if he has any cuts/ulcers on his penis.<br /> <br /> Vagina to mouth:<br /> When a woman is infected with HIV then her vaginal fluid has a high content of HIV. If her partner's mouth has bleeding gums, cuts, open wounds, or sores, there is a chance of the uninfected person getting HIV infection. </p> <p><span style="font-family: arial;">Oral sex can be safe if there is no direct contact with potentially infected body fluids, i.e., semen, seminal fluid, vaginal fluid, blood, or pus. If a condom is used correctly and consistently, in case of penis to mouth contact, there is no risk of spread of HIV.</span> </p>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-36553420982041226852010-10-02T07:51:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:52:58.453-07:00HIV AIDS SPREADS LIKE THIS !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1">HOW IS HIV/AIDS TRANSMITTED?</span><span style="font-family: arial;" class="style1"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="style1"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="style1"> </span><span style="font-family: arial;">HIV/AIDS is transmitted by: </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Unprotected sexual intercourse (that is without using a condom) with a HIV infected person.</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Receiving HIV infected blood or blood products, using unsterilized needles and syringes, or during intravenous drug abuse when sharing needles and syringes with an HIV infected person.</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • From a HIV infected pregnant mother to her baby (transmission by this route can be prevented by counseling the mother about the drugs available, hospitals who will care for her at delivery and infant feeding choices).</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> HIV/AIDS does not transmit by casual contact such as holding hands, body contact in crowded public places, working together, playing together, hugging, kissing on the cheeks or lightly on the lips, through saliva, sneezing, coughing, through mosquitoes and insect bites, food cooked by an HIV positive person, drinking from the same glass or cup, eating from the same plate, sharing the same telephones, bathrooms, toilets, beds, washing the clothes in the same bucket, and using the same swimming pool.</span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-89997891338904498452010-10-02T07:50:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:51:32.914-07:00MASTURBATING FOR THAT SEXUAL RELEASE !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>DOES MASTURBATION CAUSE HIV/ AIDS?</b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><span style="font-family: arial;">Self-masturbation is totally safe. This is a form of stimulating one's own genitals for sexual gratification. It is a physiological phenomenon and brings down the sexual tension of an individual.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> Masturbation does not cause harm to one's sex life. It does not decrease a person's sexual desires, nor does it cause any sexually transmitted disease or HIV/AIDS. It does not weaken one's health, neither does it bring down the sperm count.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> Mutual masturbation or two people stimulating one another's genitals is safe, only if there is no exchange of HIV infected body fluids such as semen, pre-ejaculatory fluid, vaginal fluid, blood, pus, etc., or HIV infected fluids do not come in contact with fresh open wounds.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> Masturbation brings down a person's sexual tension, but when a person masturbates often, it may hamper the person's daily activities. The thought of masturbation often lingers in the mind and the person prefers privacy. This may hamper communication and interaction between family members and friends and affect the individual's concentration on studies. The habit of excessive masturbation can be brought down by diverting one's mind from it by developing healthy hobbies such as playing energetic outdoor games, jogging, going for long walks, reading good books, etc. One can develop any hobby according to one's interest, as long as they can divert their mind from the thought of masturbating often.</span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-16651759961441029692010-10-02T07:48:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:49:58.794-07:00USE THAT CONDOM THE RIGHT WAY !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;" class="hd1"><b>WHAT IS A MALE CONDOM? WHAT IS IT MADE OF? WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES OF USING IT? HOW DOES ONE USE IT?</b></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><b style="font-family: arial;"> </b><span style="font-family: arial;">A male condom is a sheath usually made of latex, or of polyurethane. It acts as a barrier by preventing direct exchange of body fluids, such as semen, pre-ejaculatory fluid, vaginal fluid, genital discharge, etc., between sexual partners, thus preventing the spread of HIV infection. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> The procedure to use a condom: </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Check the expiry date before usage. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Do not keep the condom in the back pocket or wallet heat makes the latex easy to tear.</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Do not unroll the condom before putting it on. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Keep the condom in the packet till the penis is erect. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • When the penis is erect, hold the closed tip of the condom to keep out air and allow room for the semen to collect in. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Place the condom on the end of the erect penis while holding the tip, and unroll the condom onto the erect penis all the way down to the base (up to the pubic hair). If it does not unroll easily, do not use the condom. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • During sex, make sure the condom stays in place. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Pull out the penis immediately after ejaculation, before it becomes limp. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Gently unroll the condom, taking care not to spill any semen. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Dispose it promptly and properly by tying it up, wrapping it in paper and throwing it in the garbage or burying it. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Do not reuse a condom. Use a fresh condom for every sexual act.</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Condoms provide almost 100% protection against HIV/AIDS and for a majority of sexually transmitted diseases, if used correctly and consistently, i.e., if a condom is used for every sexual act from the time of penetration till the completion of the act. </span></span> </div><p style="font-family: arial; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Precautions to be taken before using a condom:<br /> • Store the condom in a cool place away from direct heat and pressure.<br /> • Make sure that sharp objects do not tear a condom during use.<br /> • Make sure that the air is expelled from the teat of the condom while wearing it, so as to prevent it from bursting during intercourse.</span></p>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-38293506885104610272010-10-02T07:45:00.000-07:002010-10-02T07:47:06.605-07:00HIV AIDS - THE SLOW BUT SURE KILLER !<table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%"><tbody><tr style="font-family:arial;"><td class="hd1"><span style="font-size:100%;"><b>WHAT IS HIV/AIDS?</b></span></td> </tr> <tr> <td style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><br /></td> <td class="main1" style="font-family:arial;"><div align="justify"> <p><span style="font-size:100%;"><b> </b>HIV/AIDS is a chronic disease caused by a virus called the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV). One gets HIV infection by indulging in unprotected sexual intercourse with an infected person, through HIV infected blood and blood products, or through the use of unsterilized needles and syringes. A HIV positive pregnant mother can give the infection to her newborn child during the pregnancy itself, during labour or by breastfeeding.<br /><br /> A HIV infected person can be perfectly normal and healthy, and remain asymptomatic for up to 8 to 12 years. AIDS is the last stage of HIV infection and usually manifests with symptoms such as fever, loss of weight, ulcers in the mouth, pneumonia, tuberculosis in parts other than the lung or in many parts of the body, diarrhea for more than one month, or brain fever. In people with AIDS the CD4 cell count (a kind of white blood cell which helps protect the person from infection) will be 200 cells/mm 3 of blood or below. The normal CD4 count is 500-1500 cells/mm </span> </p></div></td></tr></tbody></table>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-42387321060155528332008-12-13T07:07:00.000-08:002008-12-13T07:08:25.407-08:00INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT SEX !<p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Sex is biochemically no different from eating large quantities of chocolate.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Males, on average, think about sex every 7 seconds.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Each day, there are over 120 million sexual intercourse taking place all over the world.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Topless saleswomen are legal in Liverpool, England - but only in tropical fish stores. (But of course!)</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">There are men in Guam whose job is to travel the countryside and deflower young virgins, who pay them for the privilege of having sex for the 1st time.</span></p>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-69708906269604362862008-12-13T06:56:00.000-08:002008-12-13T06:58:41.038-08:00INTERESTING SEX STATISTICS !<p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Latino women have sex more often than either Blacks or Whites, who get down at roughly the same rate.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Women with a Ph.D. are twice as likely to be turned on by the thought of anonymous sex as women who never got a bachelor’s degree.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"> 70% of women who smoke have had more than 4 lovers in the last year while 60% of female non-smokers had none.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Women who respond to sex surveys in magazines like Cosmo may have 5 times as many lovers as typical women.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Women who read romance novels have sex twice as often as those who don’t.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">White teenage girls who live with single mothers are 60% more likely to have sex before the age of 18 than those who live with both parents. The percentage is much lower for black girls.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Women who lost their virginity before their 18th birthday are likely to be twice as sexually active as women who don’t.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Women who have spent a night in jail are almost 50% more likely to have had more than 10 lovers in the past year than women with no criminal record.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Australian women are more likely to have sex on the first date.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Women who went to college are more likely to enjoy oral sex (giving and receiving) than high school dropouts.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">National birthrates rise and fall with the height of heels.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">In a bar or nightclub, the hemlines and necklines of unaccompanied women rise and fall (respectively) during ovulation.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Women who have a positive attitude towards sex tend to be less achievement oriented.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Black women are 50% more likely than White women to come every time they have sex.</span></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="font-family: courier new; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;">20% of women who live with their boyfriends have more than one sex partner.</span></p>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-69856689665547664992008-12-13T06:04:00.000-08:002008-12-13T06:11:59.610-08:00FIRST NIGHT SEDUCTIVE MEASURES !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Try these methods on the first night and your partner will end up thanking you for your valued experience, rather than brooding over <table style="margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 6px;" width="205" align="left" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td id="bellyad" style="padding-left: 3px;"><div class="mod_grafico_foto2"><div class="foto_mgshow"><a href="javascript:openslideshownew('/slideshow/3416762.cms?imw=460','541')"><img src="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/thumb.cms?msid=3416762&width=200&resizemode=4" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" alt="Bride" title="Bride" vspace="0" border="0" /></a><div class="ampliarshow"><a href="javascript:openslideshownew('/slideshow/3416762.cms?imw=460','541')"><br /></a></div></div><div style="font-size: 11px;">Wedding jitters: OMG!<br />I'm no virgin!<br /></div></div></td></tr></tbody></table> your virginity</span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"><br />1. Load her with gifts:</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"> </span><span style="font-family: courier new;">Most men suffer from performance anxiety, added to that is the tension that your wife may understand you are not a virgin. Such thoughts often spoil the magic of the first night together. So indulge your better half as women love gifts. Shower her with the best of picks...right from saucy lingerie to classy jewellery. She'll be so engrossed in adoring her gift of love <a id="KonaLink0" target="undefined" class="kLink" style="text-decoration: underline ! important; position: static;" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/msid-3416501,curpg-2.cms#"><span style="color: blue ! important; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-weight: 400; font-size: 12px; position: static;color:blue;" ><span class="kLink" style="color: blue ! important; font-weight: 400; font-size: 12px; position: static;"></span></span></a> that analysing your chastity would be the last thing on her mind. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"> <br /><br />2. Act like a greenhorn: </span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;">In Rome, do as the Romans do! And when with a virgin, do as a virgin does. Try not acting like a well rehearsed 'sex-guru' or a 'sex-goddess'. Go slow...you have your entire life to try out those meticulous moves and painful positions. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;">3. Seduce him to madness: </span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;">OK...you have been a sex kitten. Use your sexperience now. Seduce <a id="KonaLink1" target="undefined" class="kLink" style="text-decoration: underline ! important; position: static;" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/msid-3416501,curpg-2.cms#"><span style="color: blue ! important; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-weight: 400; font-size: 12px; position: static;color:blue;" ><span class="kLink" style="color: blue ! important; font-weight: 400; font-size: 12px; position: static;"></span></span></a> him to such an extent that he's just there and wants 'it' and nothing else matters. Be it with your tantalising lingerie or the sexy tattoo you've got etched at a place that's accessible only to him- use your body to your best. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"> 4. Prolong the foreplay: </span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;">A killer desire to jump into a steamy, hot romp is a clear indication of premature desperation. Resist this temptation and extend the sensuous foreplay. Touch, tickle, tease or taste... do anything to turn on him/her to an extent where the thought of virginity ceases to exist. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"> 5. Get the angles wrong: </span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;">Yes, as opposed to the general rule of getting all the angles, moves and positions right. Make the wrong moves and motions and she'll know you are an anxious first timer, just like her. Maybe you will discover an altogether new position all by yourselves. The excitement of discovery will make your first night memorable. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"> 6. Get loud: </span><span style="font-family: courier new;"> </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;">As the popular adage goes, most first timers fear that first time could be quite painful. And pain makes one scream aloud. So, even if it's not your first time, getting your vocal chords active often acts as a pleasure heightener. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"> 7. Put some sense in his mind: </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"></span><span style="font-family: courier new;">If the above mentioned tricks fail to seduce him and he's still banking upon a 'broken-hymen' as the stamp of virginity, gently make him understand that women can lose their hymen for many reasons, without even being touched by a man. A modern man will understand that even swimming breaks the hymen. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"> More than virginity, accepting your partner the way he/she is. And <a id="KonaLink2" target="undefined" class="kLink" style="text-decoration: underline ! important; position: static;" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/msid-3416501,curpg-2.cms#"><span style="color: blue ! important; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-weight: 400; font-size: 12px; position: static;color:blue;" ><span class="kLink" style="color: blue ! important; font-weight: 400; font-size: 12px; position: static;"></span></span></a>take the wedding night as the beginning to a new journey. So here's to a passage of self discovery. </span></span><br /></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-22296401890281068062008-12-13T05:56:00.000-08:002008-12-13T06:04:12.664-08:00IS IT LOVE OR LUST ?<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="">Love and lust are inextricably intertwined. Lust is ground zero for hormones — it's nature's way of bringing the opposite sexes together. In fact, without lust, it's doubtful that love between a man and a woman would have a chance to prosper at all; which is also the reason why sexless marriages fail. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> However, love is the most ennobling of human emotions — transcendental, exalted and capable of engendering emotional states. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> But how can you tell the difference between lust and love? Read on to find out. </span></span><br /><br /></div><table style="margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 0px; text-align: left; margin-left: 0px; width: 162px; height: 207px;" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td id="bellyad" style="padding-left: 3px;"><div class="mod_grafico_foto2"><div class="foto_mgshow"><span style="font-size:100%;"><a href="javascript:openslideshownew('/slideshow/3256221.cms?imw=460','541')"><img src="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/thumb.cms?msid=3256221&width=200&resizemode=4" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" alt="Couple romancing" title="Couple romancing" vspace="0" border="0" /></a></span></div><div style="font-size: 11px;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Is it love or lust?</span></div></div></td></tr></tbody></table><div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">It's lust if: </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> • </span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> You're totally focussed on looks and body </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> Even before you know your crush's name, you're already fantasising about them and drooling over their looks. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> • </span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> You don't care about anything they have to say </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> It wouldn't make a difference to you if you never had a conversation with your crush. Furthermore, you don't bother to return calls promptly and you can easily go for days without </span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> talking to this person. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> You don't mind checking out other hotties, or looking at other people, like friends, to satisfy your emotional needs. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> • </span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> You spend most of your together time in 'action' </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> You make excuses not to spend time, unless it's in the confines of a room. And if they ask you for a favour, you say you're too busy. But if you have to be together and not have sex, you find them boring and look forward to doing something else like going shopping by yourself. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> • </span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> You leave after sex </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=""> After having sex, you look for the easiest way to leave. No cuddling, no breakfast the next morning, just "I gotta go". </span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233725039787080170.post-35249374436244400232008-12-13T05:53:00.000-08:002008-12-13T05:56:11.291-08:00COUPLES WATCHING PORN !<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;">But what if your sex life is witnessing a lull where the action between the sheets is lifeless and thoroughly unimaginative. To battle this dry spell, a lot of modern couples are taking recourse to watching sexually explicit videos in an effort to spice up their conjugal relationships. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"> Pornography is as old as human kind and most couples sometime or the other have viewed some sort of pornography together. From "soft" porn scenes in Hollywood flicks like Unfaithful with Diane Lane and Olivier Martinez, or Body Heat starring Kathleen Turner and William Hurt to triple X rated movies, a lot of couples have taken recourse to sampling pornography. Observing couples in an erotic sex act has always been an eye opener for many as much as it forms a source of pleasure. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"> At times, pornography is a potent catalyst which has helped enhance the sexual act between married couples who may be ignorant about experimental sex moves. Coming to their rescue, where pornography has helped them master new techniques and "ways to pleasure" each other. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"> The viewing of pornography is no longer considered as "sinful” as getting aroused via suggestive visuals often leads to couples indulging each other in bold sexual moves. Instances of modern couples filming their love act like their Hollywood counterparts also abound. Even therapists seem to suggest that pornography as a unique a way to revive sexual desire. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"> The only problems arise when both partners are not open to watching porn together. Take the case of Nishta (name changed), 28, a product manager in Mumbai who tolerates her man's habit of watching pornography, but claims to feeling deeply insecure with his penchant for the perfectly sculpted bodies of the porn stars. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-family: courier new;"> She says,” My husband told me lots of his friends' girlfriends have gone in for plastic surgery to get that perfect hot bod. He claims that I'll possess an awesome body. But, I'm unsure whether surgery will improve our sex life. My husband is selfish sexually and I blame his obsession with pornography for it". </span></span></div>OM NAMOH SHIVAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07886358754701941340noreply@blogger.com0