SEX IS BACK !

Here we come! Sexism and the city. Behold. We’re ready for new bedroom lessons. The girls are back. The serial taught Indian women to deal with their sexual vulnerabilities, anxieties and intelligence openly. It was the world of quickies, ladies lunching and shopping. So, what did Samantha, Carrie teach Indian women and men, are we ready for new lessons in faking orgasms. Now, as India gets ready for the movie Sex and the City, we discover why city’s sex life is going to get a makeover: No fun, then dump! Women want more out of life, and this time she ain’t settling for less dear boys! So if you are not able to surprise or satisfy her in the bed, she will kick you out of that bedroom without even thinking twice. Gone are the days when men had different set of rules, where sex was concerned and had edge over women. Women nowadays are more open and active about their sex life. Actor Divya Dutta says, “Women are now more vocal about relationships and sexuality. They’re working out their fantasies and feelings, nothing will suppress them. The Sex and the City girls taught them that they could live a life above the kitty party syndrome.” Man-hopper girls! Beautiful girls have more choices in terms of men. So guys, stuff it right in your head that one stupid mistake and you will be the past for your present girlfriend. She’s bold and stands tall with her decisions. Cricketer Sreesanth says, “Women are getting bolder and aware of choices in relationships. However, there is no doubt about it that today’s women are sexually liberated. Women want world at their feet.” Women don’t mind going through the whole lot until they find the best man. Just a thought, Britney Spears was linked with Justin Timberlake but got married to Kevin Federline, divorced and now in love with Adnan Ghalib. So now that’s what we call ample choice, I hope guys you get the point! No nonsense, girls! The bottom line is, there’s no room for nonsense in a healthy relationship. Women are smart and definitely not ready to take trash from men. They have become independent, more self-centred and want happiness at any cost. They don’t give a damn to what society thinks. Actor Samir Soni agrees, “It’s great to see women going for their personal choices and not just doing something under social pressure.” The moment you start creating unnecessary problems, the very next minute you’re out of it. Remember the movie, Sleeping With The Enemy in which Julia Roberts moves out of a relationship because of the cruel behaviour of the husband. Model Lakshmi Rana says, “Modern women do not believe in dragging a relationship if they’re not happy. This is a big change. Women are intolerant towards insensitivity and bad behaviour.” Loud and clear It’s not that women never knew what they want. But this time they are being open about relationships and dictating the new rules of the game all together. Comedian Vir Das agrees, “Women were open about relationships but now they are sharing it all with the men. The three things that women want in their lives are, first, they want everything. Second, they want men and third, they want what other women want.” Sex or no sex, women are taking charge of their sexual lives now. “In ancient times, sexuality was considered a celebrated thing and we have to be open and clear about these things. Please, it is not a taboo anymore,” says TV actor, Roshni Chopra.