SEX ETIQUETTES

• Fantasy Exchange : Have the courage to reveal your inner most fantasies. And while you're at it, encourage your partner to reveal his or hers.
• The eyes have it : Try keeping your eyes open during lovemaking. It might intensify your connection - emotionally, physically, and spiritually -with your partner.
• Be spontaneous : Try sex in any other room in the house or the backyard for that matter.
• No criticism in bed : Instead of complaining about what your partner is doing (that is unless you're being hurt or abused), tell him/her what you like.
• Plan time for sex : Do whatever you like to do beforehand, go to a movie or dinner, take a walk, have a glass of wine by candlelight, whatever you like to do as a couple. But set aside that time.
• Ask : You need to ask your partner the same questions that you've asked yourself. What does your partner want from your love life? Talking openly might bring you closer to one another, and that's likely to make sex more interesting for both of you.
• Don't ignore sexual problems : People often shy away from sexuality because they don't want to face failure but these problems need to be addressed head on.
• Lubrication is important : In terms of how aroused a person is, lubrication for a woman is the equivalent of an erection for a man.
• Stop comparing : Don't worry about what everyone else is doing; you do what is right and agreeable to both of you.
• Foreplay matters : Take a hot shower or bath together. Extend your foreplay time.
• Be innovative : A blindfold can add a degree of intimacy and trust in your partner that other things cannot. Read your partner an erotic bedtime story or write a sexy letter describing everything you'd like to do to them.
• Aphrodisiacs : Feed each other sensually suggestive finger foods. The best way to feed each other is naked, of course! This would set the tone for an incredible lovemaking experience.