TELLING HER YOU LOVE HER !

Telling her “I love you” is a big step in building a relationship. There are many ways of doing it, but make sure you mean it before you say it to your girlfriend. Plan it all well. Here’s how you can go about it... FIRST STEP: Decide on when and where you want to tell her. Would you like to do it in a special place? Do you want to say it to her on a certain day? Maybe if her birthday is coming up soon, you’d like to wait and finally propose to her on that special day. You might want to tell her at the restaurant where you went the first time. SECOND STEP: You have to set the mood and be romantic. Buy her flowers. Flowers often say a lot. You could also buy her a romantic gift, something she would love. THIRD STEP: Look at her directly, take her hand and tell her how positive you feel about her. Give her examples of things you really like about her. Be sincere. FOURTH STEP: In your conversation, convey to her how you feel being with her and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with her. FIFTH STEP: Follow these positive statements with telling her you love her in whatever way feels best for you. For instance, “I feel I’ve come to love you” or “I realise I love you” or “I feel so much love for you” or “I've fallen in love with you” or simply “I love you.” But hey, don’t hesitate and not say it at all. It’s your big day, be calm and tell her what you feel. After all, there’s been so much preparation you’ve made for this moment. In all probability, she will smile and accept your proposal.